Not being one to complain, i'll not say anything about the "flu" i have. lol check this out... is this you? WHY AM I A JERK MAGNET? I tend to get treated badly by some pretty serious jerks. Often, it's my fault — there are obvious signs of jerkiness and I proceed without caution. Other times it's out of thin air. Most recently it's a combination. While I'm not sad at the loss of this person (we weren't serious), I just can't shake the feeling there must be something terribly wrong with me that every person I get involved with sees fit to treat me like the human equivalent of dog doo on their shoe. I mean, I'm the common factor here, right? How can it not be about me and my quality as a person?